Why do I have to be so honest? I always have to open my big mouth. I find myself in situations where I keep apologizing for what I said. But then I wonder , why do I have to apologize for being honest? I get that some things have to stay private. But being honest is a part of me. It's one of those things people use to describe me.
Like for example: today something happened during class which my friend wanted to keep private. But me with my big mouth was telling that "something" happened. I didn't tell my classmates her name. And yet still she still heard it from people. And she wasn't to happy about it. Shortly after that she wrote a whatsapp message. And I instantly knew it was about me.
And that made me feel so bad. As honest and direct as I am I sent her message. I apologized for what I said. And promised her to never say something before thinking about it. And this wasn't even so bad. But it really got me thinking: " should I think before I speak? Do I need to shut my mouth at certain times? ". Of course I do. But I also think that it depends on the situation. For example : when I'm mad at someone I tend to say things that will hurt them. While in my heart I know I shouldn't. But at time I'm so angry, I really can't think straight anymore.
The reason I am writing this blog is because today we had interesting class. It was about our characteristics. And one the things people said about me that I was insecure and clumsy. And they were all right. I am insecure and clumsy but I'm also direct, disciplined and a hard worker. But our class mentor said something that really got to me. He said : " you can be honest, you can be tough, but be aware of the fact that you eventually will end up building a wall around you". I said nothing. But I instantly knew that this is what I've been doing for several years now. I need to learn to express myself more. People think I'm tough? I'm not. I pretend to be. People sometimes think I say thing for spite. I don't. I'm honest.
What I'm trying to say is "think before you speak". Word sometimes can cut like a knife.
PS: This blog may be shorter than you would normally expect. This is because I wrote this on my phone! xoxo
Friday, March 8, 2013
Sunday, January 20, 2013
Long time?
Hiii! How are you guys? I wanna know, since it has been such a long time I blogged! So what have I been up to lately? Well, my life is BUSY. Busy I'll tell you! School is just taking up all my time lately. And when I do have some time, I want to relax. So that's why I haven't been really blogging actively after the colgate review.
But I'm thinking of just blogging randomly for really long time. But because I was previously blogging about beauty and all that kind of jazz. I really do not want to change that. So what do you guys think? Should I switch to daily random blogs, or stick to beauty ? Please let me know in the comments below!
So in september last year I started my a course at the Hogeschool van Amsterdam! And I thought that it was going to be really easy, little as no homework. But guess what? This bitch was wrong. Yes, I was.
This course I'm following is called Media, Information and Communication. And I was like chillin' on the first day. I was like: " Hell yeah, I'm going to nail this" . But NO. This course is harder than thought guys. School is like busting my ass. I'm buried under my homework. That basically sucks.
I'll try to squeeze in a blog once in a while! Forgive me if ain't always updating! School is just one the important things in my life after work and family.
But if you guys have any requests, questions or whatsoever, you can always mail me on itsmefarhaa@gmail.com! And I'll try to respond to you ASAP!
But I'm thinking of just blogging randomly for really long time. But because I was previously blogging about beauty and all that kind of jazz. I really do not want to change that. So what do you guys think? Should I switch to daily random blogs, or stick to beauty ? Please let me know in the comments below!
So in september last year I started my a course at the Hogeschool van Amsterdam! And I thought that it was going to be really easy, little as no homework. But guess what? This bitch was wrong. Yes, I was.
This course I'm following is called Media, Information and Communication. And I was like chillin' on the first day. I was like: " Hell yeah, I'm going to nail this" . But NO. This course is harder than thought guys. School is like busting my ass. I'm buried under my homework. That basically sucks.
I'll try to squeeze in a blog once in a while! Forgive me if ain't always updating! School is just one the important things in my life after work and family.
But if you guys have any requests, questions or whatsoever, you can always mail me on itsmefarhaa@gmail.com! And I'll try to respond to you ASAP!
Love,
Farha
Monday, November 19, 2012
Colgate MaxWhite One Review
Whaduupp y'all! How are you guys doing? Well I'm fine, just to let you know! ;-) But let's get to the point. Today I'm reviewing the new Colgate line ( see : http://itsmefarhaa.blogspot.nl/2012/11/just-in-colgate-maxwhite-one.html ).
Let's start!
Colgate promises that within a week, your teeth will be one shade whiter. So below you see pictures of all of the new products!
What I think of the products? Okay, so I have been using the toothbrush, toothpaste, and mouthwash for a week now. It really does make your teeth whiter, but for me it was just that first layer of yellowness on your teeth which it removed.
I think if you have to use it a little longer, your teeth will be much whiter. Also I loved that after brushing your teeth and using the mouthwash, your mouth really smells fresh. I have been using Aquafresh my entire life. And now that I tried the new Colgate line I really am considering using Colgate instead of Aquafresh.
All and all, I really loved these products. It really does make your teeth whiter, but to really see that, I'll just have to use it a little longer!
Prizes? The toothbrush is €3,79, the mouthwash is €6,49 and the toothpaste is €3,99.
Let's start!
Colgate promises that within a week, your teeth will be one shade whiter. So below you see pictures of all of the new products!
What I think of the products? Okay, so I have been using the toothbrush, toothpaste, and mouthwash for a week now. It really does make your teeth whiter, but for me it was just that first layer of yellowness on your teeth which it removed.
I think if you have to use it a little longer, your teeth will be much whiter. Also I loved that after brushing your teeth and using the mouthwash, your mouth really smells fresh. I have been using Aquafresh my entire life. And now that I tried the new Colgate line I really am considering using Colgate instead of Aquafresh.
All and all, I really loved these products. It really does make your teeth whiter, but to really see that, I'll just have to use it a little longer!
Prizes? The toothbrush is €3,79, the mouthwash is €6,49 and the toothpaste is €3,99.
Love,
Farha
Saturday, November 17, 2012
Catrice LE NEONaturals
Neon is remarkable and clearly outgoing! Nude on the other hand is a silent force. Do these two have something in common? Totally not, but they still totally make the perfect pair! They create excitement and are perfect contrasts. The new Limited Edition "NEONaturals" by Catrice invites you with bright colors to cheer up the winter months. NEONaturals offers endless possibilities by super bright colors with soft natural tones to combine. Nude is playful and neon is elegant. NEONaturals brings bright colors of international designers on the nails: six neon-and six natural shades for endless looks. Individual use or as a colorduo for a beautiful "moon" manicure - nails as the ultimate fashion accessory! This limited edition is available mid-December 2012 to mid January 2013.
So let's see what products are in this collection!
Nail Art Kit , €3,59
Ultimate NEON Nail Lacquer, €2,69. Available in the colors:
And that completes all of the products! It's not a lot, but I think the nail polishes are worth buying! This collection will be available from the mid of December!
PS: Told ya I was back for real this time! I'm just taking it slow!
So let's see what products are in this collection!
Nail Art Kit , €3,59
Ultimate NATURAL Nail Lacquer, €2,69. Available in the colors:
- C01 Be Naturally Crazy
- C02 Natural Is Calling
- C03 Makes Me Smile
- C04 Enjoy Me
- C05 Have a Good Day
- C06 Be Natural
Ultimate NEON Nail Lacquer, €2,69. Available in the colors:
- C01 Little Miss Sunshine
- C02 For Bright Guys
- C03 Mr. Brightsight
- C04 Mrs. Brightsight
- C05 Bright, Brighter & Brightest
- C06 On The Bright Side Of Life
And that completes all of the products! It's not a lot, but I think the nail polishes are worth buying! This collection will be available from the mid of December!
PS: Told ya I was back for real this time! I'm just taking it slow!
Love,
Farha
Monday, November 12, 2012
Just in: Colgate MaxWhite One
Yes, yes. Told you I was coming back! It just took some time because of school and stuff. There were some projects that were important and some tests I had to make! But let's put that behind us and let's do some blogging.
Today I have something very exciting for you guys! I just received my first ever press package from Colgate! Yes, Colgate has a new line! And it's the MaxWhite One line!
"More confidence with an appealing bright white smile". To obtain and maintain a bright white smile, Colgate introduces some very innovative whitening products called Colgate MaxWhite One. The MaxWhite One products (toothpaste, mouthwash and a toothbrush) will make your teeth one shad whiter in just one week. Research shows that a bright white smile for Dutch men and women, are the most important factor in making a good first impression. When you have an bright white smile make it'll you feel better and above all confident. Confidence is ver important, both in your private life and in the business world. With an beautiful white smile you''ll be more confident stepping into a business meeting. Also when you have an job interview, stepping in with an bright white smile, will make you feel a lot more confident.
The first impression is very important for young professionals.
During the first few seconds of an introduction you already have an opinion about the other person. This is true, especially for young professionals at the beginning of their career.That first impression says a lot about their "promise" for the future. Young professionals can therefore use some confidence to make a good first impression. They step out of their comfort so easily from the safe world of study and enter a world full of ambition that is completely new for them. A radiant smile is the most important accessory for young professionals in creating a good first impression.
Career Psychologist Rose Woltering about the importance of a good first impression, "We are not easily released from the first impression we make. The 'halo' and' horn' effects make to it that we automatically get positive (halo) or negative (horn). That means that if we judge someone in a positive way, we will generalize to other characteristics. You understand what a radiant smile can do for you. " Do's and don'ts for a positive first impression
Colgate wants to help these young professionals achieving their ambitions and therefore Colgate gives them a nudge in the right direction. On Facebook (http://www.facebook.com/ColgateNederland) Colgate gives tips on how to get through the day when you have an important meeting. What you should wear and what not? And some more do's and don'ts for a good first impression? All important information and inspiration for a good appearance and agood conversation can be found on the Facebook page of Colgate.
MaxOvers, the ultimate tool for achieving goals
To really help young professionals in every conceivable way to prepare them for the future and to help their ambitions, Colgate gives some MaxOvers through Facebook. This MaxOver gives the kickstart of the careers of young professionals. An MaxOver includes career coaching, personal styling advice, an iPad 3, an career goodie bag, a styling voucher worth 400 euros, a professional photo shoot and a year package Colgate MaxWhite One. Colgate assures that young professionals confidently can achieve their ultimate goals.
So aren't you excited? I'm reviewing these products! At the end of the week, the review will be online!
Today I have something very exciting for you guys! I just received my first ever press package from Colgate! Yes, Colgate has a new line! And it's the MaxWhite One line!
"More confidence with an appealing bright white smile". To obtain and maintain a bright white smile, Colgate introduces some very innovative whitening products called Colgate MaxWhite One. The MaxWhite One products (toothpaste, mouthwash and a toothbrush) will make your teeth one shad whiter in just one week. Research shows that a bright white smile for Dutch men and women, are the most important factor in making a good first impression. When you have an bright white smile make it'll you feel better and above all confident. Confidence is ver important, both in your private life and in the business world. With an beautiful white smile you''ll be more confident stepping into a business meeting. Also when you have an job interview, stepping in with an bright white smile, will make you feel a lot more confident.
Colgate MaxWhite One Products |
The first impression is very important for young professionals.
During the first few seconds of an introduction you already have an opinion about the other person. This is true, especially for young professionals at the beginning of their career.That first impression says a lot about their "promise" for the future. Young professionals can therefore use some confidence to make a good first impression. They step out of their comfort so easily from the safe world of study and enter a world full of ambition that is completely new for them. A radiant smile is the most important accessory for young professionals in creating a good first impression.
Career Psychologist Rose Woltering about the importance of a good first impression, "We are not easily released from the first impression we make. The 'halo' and' horn' effects make to it that we automatically get positive (halo) or negative (horn). That means that if we judge someone in a positive way, we will generalize to other characteristics. You understand what a radiant smile can do for you. " Do's and don'ts for a positive first impression
Colgate wants to help these young professionals achieving their ambitions and therefore Colgate gives them a nudge in the right direction. On Facebook (http://www.facebook.com/ColgateNederland) Colgate gives tips on how to get through the day when you have an important meeting. What you should wear and what not? And some more do's and don'ts for a good first impression? All important information and inspiration for a good appearance and agood conversation can be found on the Facebook page of Colgate.
MaxOvers, the ultimate tool for achieving goals
To really help young professionals in every conceivable way to prepare them for the future and to help their ambitions, Colgate gives some MaxOvers through Facebook. This MaxOver gives the kickstart of the careers of young professionals. An MaxOver includes career coaching, personal styling advice, an iPad 3, an career goodie bag, a styling voucher worth 400 euros, a professional photo shoot and a year package Colgate MaxWhite One. Colgate assures that young professionals confidently can achieve their ultimate goals.
So aren't you excited? I'm reviewing these products! At the end of the week, the review will be online!
Love,
Farha
Thursday, October 25, 2012
OMG! Where have i been?
Ok ok I know ... I need to stop making excuses about not blogging. It's just that these few months have been kinda crazy. And because of some personal reasons I really didn't feel like blogging. That's basically it.
But I wanted to let you know that I didn't forget about my blog and I will try to give it some more love! I really did miss blogging though. But on the other side it was good to take a break! I hope you guys aren't to mad haha!
You'll hear soon from me!
xoxo Farha
But I wanted to let you know that I didn't forget about my blog and I will try to give it some more love! I really did miss blogging though. But on the other side it was good to take a break! I hope you guys aren't to mad haha!
You'll hear soon from me!
xoxo Farha
Tuesday, April 24, 2012
Wadddupppp Everyone?
Hi. Shame on me. SHAME ON ME!! It's been a long time since we talked, blogged whatever ... Remember I told you I was gonna try to blog everyday? Well that didn't worked. I really reallllyyyyy reallllyyyyyyy want to write everyday. But sometimes I'm so tired I can't even speak normally. Also I'm an intern now at this company, and they ain't paying me nothing. Like NADA money. So you I have to work for my money. I feel like all I do is eat, sleep and work. Which sucks. SUCKS, i tell ya!
Anyway I just wanted to let you know I'm alive. Like I have to once in a while.
But since I haven't talked to you guys in a while:
Anyway I just wanted to let you know I'm alive. Like I have to once in a while.
But since I haven't talked to you guys in a while:
Waddddupp everyone?
Tell me! I really wanna know what has going on in your lives lately! Since I haven't updated in like forever!!
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